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"Parents located in North London is looking for an extraordinary and skilled tutor to support their smallest child on his initial journey to growing into an British gentleman."

Upon seeing this advertisement, you might easily overlook the term "beginning" as mere an expression.

Yet, it may be the most significant part of this unique position posting, as it aims to recruit a tutor for a infant.

Hundreds of applications have since been submitted since the unidentified family advertised their call for the highly paid tutor, who needs to be "a uniquely qualified person".

In recent few weeks, the listing has attracted attention in the press, with many asking why?

Forward-Thinking Method

The CEO, chief executive of an education consultancy, which is assisting the family in their hunt, said that despite first scepticism, he considered the concept "far sighted", and "innovative".

When he met the family, he mentioned they understood the atypical aspect of their demand, and how immature their son is.

But, they stated that they "preferred not to postpone any longer" to hire a tutor, as they had waited until their elder sibling was five, and by that age "cultural influence had already taken hold".

What precisely did the family refer to by "cultural predisposition"?

It's "comprehensive", the expert answered. "The manner you eat, the way you speak".

He explained the elder child had adopted "very nuanced, non-verbal cues" from the family, and had assumed their cultural ways. The family told Adam they did not want this pattern to repeat itself with their new baby.

The intention: To hire a English tutor, who needs to speak with standard English accent, to shape the baby right from the beginning.

Natural Absorption

"A lot of the education at the outset here is rather acquired indirectly," explained the expert.

It's by means of this natural absorption that the family are expecting the child will adopt the English characteristics they want to instil.

Adam explained the tutor had to be somebody who went to "the appropriate educational institutions – similar types of schools as the family aspire to send their son to".

"The instructor just has to be the right kind of person, they'll be performing things they may not realize they're doing, simply by nature," he said.

Expense Not a Factor

The family explained to the expert the successful candidate should ideally also have knowledge of or passion in riding, skiing, creative fields and musical activities so as to influence the child in a wide range of passions.

More than that though, he explained the family desired the tutor to sign up the child on a selection of classes so the child would be "equestrian training and picking up an instrument by the time they are around three years old".

In the family's perspective, helping their son grow into a "UK sophisticate" will lead to success and provide access.

"Taking into account the advantages and disadvantages of that, because it's certainly a status symbol," he notes.

However, despite all this tutelage in "Britishness", could the child pick up alleged cultural bias from the international family he resides with regardless?

"Absolutely", replied he. "They understand this may not work, but they've just taken the perspective of, 'let's give it a go and let's go as soon as we can', because the expense of it is not relevant," he explained.

Impractical

A number of in the education sector who have similar reservations.

Another CEO, head and founder of Blue Education, who provides individual instructors, commented that "the development of adopting dual cultures, or in fact, becoming oneself, is something that must be experienced personally, not designed."

Peter noted that he had emigrated from the Far East to the United Kingdom at the period of 7 years old, and had been educated knowing and embodying two backgrounds. He continued to learn at the University of Cambridge.

"The concept that one individual can act as a embodiment of English culture, a person who can possibly impart the qualities of a UK sophisticate onto a one-year-old child, appears naive and unrealistic," he wrote.

"In my experience, employing a distinctly British tutor from early childhood will will not necessarily produce the goal they desire.

"I wasn't provided with such a figure, and however I have been fortunate enough to experience many of the situations they aspire for their son."

He continued: "The fact is, personal identity can not be dictated from the outside influences; it must be embraced, and it must originate internally."

Acquiring Englishness

Certainly, English culture is something Adam thinks can be taught – and commercialized.

"I think the fact that the global community views us in this respect is something that we should be cherishing|valuing|appreciating